Change. Balance. They are not my favorite words, are they yours? It seems that life is constantly changing right in front of our eyes. From the beginning of our lives, change is the only thing that is for sure and constant. Balance, on the other hand, seems to be off kilter in a lot of people’s lives, a lot.
As I’ve gotten older I find myself shirking back, not wanting to change with the times. However, one change I have made is with the way I think.
For example, because I work at home I found myself always working, never relaxing, and enjoying my new home. Now, that doesn’t seem right nor should it. I wondered what the answer was so I did what any grandmommy blogger would do…I went to Facebook and asked what other women who work at home do to balance their lives between work and personal, home life.
I even got out of my own scaredy-cat way and did my first Facebook Live video to talk about how balance can change our whole perception of work, play and living in a balanced, happy way. Here are a few replies some women wrote in reply to my question.
So, we all have to admit that change is inevitable. The challenge is to find balance in our lives as we confront the change that faces us daily. If you found this helpful, leave your comment below. You never know, what you share just might help someone else, too.
If you have questions or a topic you’d like to learn more about, ask…I’m dying to share more stories and anecdotes to help you confront the changes facing your tomorrow.
Carla Gardiner is a mom of 2, fiery grandma of 7 and married to her husband for 38 years. She is focused, driven a business owner who made a big move in her late 50’s which rocked her world. Transitioning from her native hometown to her new home 3 states away took guts, work, and dedication to get the job done. Now, she is focused on helping other women handle life’s changes after 50 while making the transition to their retirement lifestyle, one they’ve been dreaming of instead of the nightmare it could become.
P.S. Before you go I have a question for you. Do you already have a home business? Are you using Facebook Live videos to help shout out your message or do you run for cover as soon as you hear the words Facebook LIVE or Video Marketing? Don’t feel bad … I was exactly the same way until I read this post and decided to use the 3 tips to change my outlook on videos (with ME in them). Take a few minutes, hop over there and discover the 3 tips to overcome the fear of Facebook Live videos.
"Very well put. I've been with a health and nutrition company for over 26 years and I understand exactly what you are going through. I shiver to think what my health might be today at age 68 had I not stuck to my guns as far as practicing what I preach. Yes, I fall off the wagon regularly but my daily routine life reflects taking care of my health. That way I can keep up (somewhat) with my 7 grandchildren. You keep it up, Carla". 
"For most people the thought of venturing out there in pursuit of your dreams, in a place outside of your comfort zones is just what stops them. But I could sense your excitement not resentment in going against the competition. In planting your stake and truly making a difference in the clients experience. That's ultimately what matters, the rest just falls so easily into place. Thanks for that reminder"! 
Carla, I’ve got to say that I LOVE your focus on the joys and challenges facing women over 50. I’m definitely in that camp! I’ve been inspired by your candor, practical ideas, and refreshing determination to joyfully tackle life. The hours we’ve spent on the phone, in person, and through social media have enriched my life immeasurably. YOU are one Fiery Grandma, and I love your style! 
I have known Carla Gardiner for 6+ years. We met at a business training for bring business online. She is a business women at heart and willing to do the hard things to make the results show up. I have watched her run a business, work a job and take care of her family. She is a go getter when it comes to putting in the work to build her business to the level of being able to enjoy her grand kids.
She is the example that age is not a limit it is a tool for sharing knowledge to those she empowers to use their own skills and talents. Excuses are fuel to push her to learn and apply. I have seen her scared to death about implementing new technology and rock it out despite the learning curve.
I love watching you grow into your greatness Carla! Don’t slow down. 
"Carla, you are a model for me to follow. I love your site. And, I like what you have to say - very kind, very gracious. I have to say though that nothing in my life has ever been crystal clear". 
"I've known Carla for 5+ years and can tell you that she has lived every bit of this and more. We shared tears and laughs and hard work....you will enjoy getting to know Carla."
