In Memory of Debbie Moore
One Last Goodbye
Last night as I checked Facebook one last time I stumbled upon a message “in memory of Debbie Moore“; this message was from the daughter of an old friend. Reading her post I paused, re-read it and gasped. A friend of mine had died at 4 PM that day. In tribute to her memory I’d like to share the story of how Debbie and I met, what she meant to me, how she encouraged me to become an entrepreneur and fulfill that dream of working at home.
Debbie was a very happy go lucky woman who always had a smile on her face. She was a wife, mom to three great kids and had just become a grandma. I didn’t think her glowing smile could get any brighter; but, when her daughter gave birth to her first grand-baby…she light up like a brilliant star in the heavens. Although our paths crossed many times when we were young our friendship didn’t begin to develop until a job brought us together, working at a local car dealership.
Debbie was the office manager at Red Bluff Chrysler Dodge and soon to become my supervisor. Having no experience working for car dealerships Debbie was patient and worked with me to help get my skills and knowledge up to par. She had a firm but loving way about her, a no-nonsense way that got the job done yet we laughed the entire day as if we were young girls out playing in the back field.
I can honestly say I’ve never had a supervisor that left such an impression and impact on my life, both personal and professional. When I applied for another job working for the County she encouraged me to go for it even though I was scared to death. The reference she gave was so honest and highlighted the value I could bring with me…it was very humbling. She was sad when I left but very happy for me for mustering up the courage to “go for it”.
Our paths rarely crossed much after we worked together, we’d see each other a few times throughout the year at local events, stop and take a few minutes for niceties then go on with our day. It wasn’t until we reconnected on Facebook that our relationship, our friendship started to rekindle itself. Odd, isn’t it…we live in the same town, know some of the same people, yet run in different circles and only connect on Facebook. I think there’s a lesson in that one…but, one for a different time.
If there is one thing I’m grateful for it is that not long ago I took the opportunity to publicly thank Debbie. Commending her for the way she lived her life, how she handled working with people and for always staying on the positive side. I even went so far as to tell her that I’ve had many supervisors over the years and NONE hold a place in my heart or memory … except her. Debbie was a special woman, an extraordinary human-being who will not be forgotten, but missed terribly.
I’ll close now in reflection on the life of my friend, Debbie Moore and her part in mine; the only peace I can find is in the Bible, I hope it brings you comfort, too. My favorite verse is found at Revelation 21:4 and it reads “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
If there’s a lesson in losing those we love too soon it would be this one – embrace every moment of every day, tell those you care about that you love and treasure them. Life is short and sometimes shorter than we could even imagine. Click here to read what other friends shared about Debbie.
With that I’d like to thank each and every one of you for taking time out of your precious day to read about one amazing woman who graced my life in so many ways. Goodbye Debbie, until we meet again.
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"Very well put. I've been with a health and nutrition company for over 26 years and I understand exactly what you are going through. I shiver to think what my health might be today at age 68 had I not stuck to my guns as far as practicing what I preach. Yes, I fall off the wagon regularly but my daily routine life reflects taking care of my health. That way I can keep up (somewhat) with my 7 grandchildren. You keep it up, Carla". 
"For most people the thought of venturing out there in pursuit of your dreams, in a place outside of your comfort zones is just what stops them. But I could sense your excitement not resentment in going against the competition. In planting your stake and truly making a difference in the clients experience. That's ultimately what matters, the rest just falls so easily into place. Thanks for that reminder"! 
Carla, I’ve got to say that I LOVE your focus on the joys and challenges facing women over 50. I’m definitely in that camp! I’ve been inspired by your candor, practical ideas, and refreshing determination to joyfully tackle life. The hours we’ve spent on the phone, in person, and through social media have enriched my life immeasurably. YOU are one Fiery Grandma, and I love your style! 
I have known Carla Gardiner for 6+ years. We met at a business training for bring business online. She is a business women at heart and willing to do the hard things to make the results show up. I have watched her run a business, work a job and take care of her family. She is a go getter when it comes to putting in the work to build her business to the level of being able to enjoy her grand kids.
She is the example that age is not a limit it is a tool for sharing knowledge to those she empowers to use their own skills and talents. Excuses are fuel to push her to learn and apply. I have seen her scared to death about implementing new technology and rock it out despite the learning curve.
I love watching you grow into your greatness Carla! Don’t slow down. 
"Carla, you are a model for me to follow. I love your site. And, I like what you have to say - very kind, very gracious. I have to say though that nothing in my life has ever been crystal clear". 
"I've known Carla for 5+ years and can tell you that she has lived every bit of this and more. We shared tears and laughs and hard work....you will enjoy getting to know Carla."
I miss you my friend, Debbie.