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Chat With Women Can Teach Us About Redefining Success
We may be women over 50 but we aren't dead yet
Have you ever felt that way? You've worked the better part of your life building someone elses business and now it's retirement time. But, now what? Well, as Chat With Women‘s Rochelle Alhadeff said “Girls just want to have fun. We may be over 50 but we aren't dead yet”!
Pam Gray and Rochelle Alhadeff are the hostesses of the daily radio show Chat With Women . The show is based in beautiful Washington state. It airs at 12:00pm – 1:00pm Monday – Friday. In this entertaining show on KIXI AM 880, Pam and Rochelle share their own brand of funny, inspiring, and life-changing insights weekdays on the radio. I had the privilege of being interviewed on the show July 15th and had a blast. You can listen to the replay by clicking here and read below in detail what I shared on the show.
Why I decided to bring my business online
More than three years ago I brought my business online. My intention was to attract other men and women who like me were looking to redefine success after 50. I didn't know anything about blogging, marketing or using social media.
What made me decide to start working smart instead of hard? One of the most hard-hitting lessons I've ever learned was delivered via my little six year old granddaughter, Maebh.
One morning while working on my laptop at the kitchen table she came up to sit beside me. She said “Grammy, I love when you come to visit me. Why do you have to work all the time, can't we go play”?
Her words still ring in my ears and they are the very reason I changed the way I do business each and every day.
If you are like me you've worked hard all your life. You've looked forward to the day when you can relax a little bit. Yet, you know there is still more you have to give, there are things you are passionate about and want to pursue before it's too late.
If you are like me and millions of other women over 50 across the nation there are still bills to pay, places to go and see with your family. Frankly, it's simply not time to sit in that rocker on the front porch while your life slips silently into the past, is it?
Now it's your turn to redefine success after 50
So now is the time to dig up those long forgotten passions you dreamed of in the past. Now it's time for you to redefine success after 50 and live the life you thought you would have achieved by now. Join me as we learn together in a community of business owners from all walks of life, all ages and skill levels.
Let's share that passion that you've suppressed all these years, the world deserves to see the real, fiery YOU. Don't let that fire burn out, you're too young baby to allow yourself to drift off to the retirement home with those who have lost all hope of ever building their dream life.
I hope you enjoyed the interview on Chat With Women and come back often to enjoy the fun Pam and Rochelle offer weekly. Be sure to check out the free gift I offered listeners at the end of the program.
Leave a comment below to share your favorite part of the show. Please share with all your friends who are looking to Chat With Women and redefine success after 50, too.
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"Very well put. I've been with a health and nutrition company for over 26 years and I understand exactly what you are going through. I shiver to think what my health might be today at age 68 had I not stuck to my guns as far as practicing what I preach. Yes, I fall off the wagon regularly but my daily routine life reflects taking care of my health. That way I can keep up (somewhat) with my 7 grandchildren. You keep it up, Carla". 
"For most people the thought of venturing out there in pursuit of your dreams, in a place outside of your comfort zones is just what stops them. But I could sense your excitement not resentment in going against the competition. In planting your stake and truly making a difference in the clients experience. That's ultimately what matters, the rest just falls so easily into place. Thanks for that reminder"! 
Carla, I’ve got to say that I LOVE your focus on the joys and challenges facing women over 50. I’m definitely in that camp! I’ve been inspired by your candor, practical ideas, and refreshing determination to joyfully tackle life. The hours we’ve spent on the phone, in person, and through social media have enriched my life immeasurably. YOU are one Fiery Grandma, and I love your style! 
I have known Carla Gardiner for 6+ years. We met at a business training for bring business online. She is a business women at heart and willing to do the hard things to make the results show up. I have watched her run a business, work a job and take care of her family. She is a go getter when it comes to putting in the work to build her business to the level of being able to enjoy her grand kids.
She is the example that age is not a limit it is a tool for sharing knowledge to those she empowers to use their own skills and talents. Excuses are fuel to push her to learn and apply. I have seen her scared to death about implementing new technology and rock it out despite the learning curve.
I love watching you grow into your greatness Carla! Don’t slow down. 
"Carla, you are a model for me to follow. I love your site. And, I like what you have to say - very kind, very gracious. I have to say though that nothing in my life has ever been crystal clear". 
"I've known Carla for 5+ years and can tell you that she has lived every bit of this and more. We shared tears and laughs and hard work....you will enjoy getting to know Carla."
You’re so right about “digging up those dreams of the past,” Carla. So many women had dreams in their teens and twenties that they set aside when they took on the responsibility of raising a family. And in their early 50s, the “what about me” question starts getting asked. I’m always thrilled when my clients reach back to those set-aside dreams … and find a way to dust them off and reinterpret them for today’s times. And then go live them!
You are right, Sharon. One day we will look back with a smile and share our journey with those women just beginning. Being able to help others see the vision, re-kindle the dream and endure the journey is what I’m all about…living my own journey now is sometimes hard…I’ll admit it. Knowing the truth can help fortify you for the tough times and help you soar during the good times. Dream on ladies.
Love it. I think at any point you have to look at you life and say… do I love it. I decided to go online at age 35 so that I didn’t have to wonder what my life would be like. I already live it!
Good for you Katrina. If only…I had known back when I was 35…maybe now I wouldn’t be redefining success after 50! But, the journey is mine and one that I wouldn’t change for the world.
Ouch! Getting a message like that from a precious youngster would do me in for sure… and I can see why it was a catalyst for your decisions 🙂 I’m super proud of you for doing the right thing and making those positive decisions, even though they sometimes feel hard 🙂
Yep Robin and that’s why I choose to strive every day to do my best, help others and grow my business working from home. If I had a job I’d be missing out on the precious moments I get to spend with them now.
You had me smiling at the get go! Love “You might be 50 but not dead yet…” Absolutely! We have the advantage of having gained wisdom with the years. Woohoo! 🙂
Thank you Norma. That’s what I love about you, spunk, drive and savvy all rolled into one fantastic marketer.
Inspiring post! Being able to balance business and family truly brings life greater meaning. How do you keep your motivation alive?
Thank you Lorii. My motivation comes from a deep-seated love for my grandchildren. When kids speak from their hearts it pulls at our hearts so much that it drives us to build our business to be able to enjoy them now while they are still young.
It is so important to find and do what we love and keep balance with our family.
Thank you for your great article. So many people need to read this.
Thank you Carele. Appreciate you taking time out of your busy day to share and stop by.
Over 50 & add 20 more & I feel younger than ever. I am so passionate about what I do & am stimulated by the constant challenge to implement all that I am learning. Sometimes I put my feet up & join my hubby on the couch. He is not compelled to take on projects or learn the computer but is so proud of what I am undertaking & accomplishing. Without his support, I would be struggling to find more hours in the day.
You are such an inspiration in every way Roslyn. Your hubby sounds a lot like mine so we have even more in common. Loving what we do it’s easy to want to get up every day to serve others and have fun building a business.
I am, well, past 50, and still working every day. But I’m learning that I have to slow down or gee, I won’t make 60! So I am taking your words to heart. Thanks for the reminder that every day is a gift.
Thank you and welcome, Tina. I think we are right about the same age. I found that I was losing energy by the day until my girlfriend shared some information with me. Now, I have energy that lasts from sun-up to when I turn in around 11:30 PM…yep, all day long. Working at what we are passionate about is one key to living a life of abundance and health…share that talent of yours, it is beautiful and gives others a smiling heart.
I love this Carla! After so many years of searching what I truly want in life I finally found it and yes I was able to succeed!
Congratulations, Mark. Business has a way of presenting us with surprises. My advice, always have a back up plan B. Watch for tomorrow’s article you’ll see why I promote that.
I love this! One of my greatest lessons also came from my daughter. Children have a way of saying things just the way they are and it can really open your eyes to what’s really important in life!
You’ve got that right Angie! Out of the mouth of babes…truer words have not been spoken. It was a real eye-opener for me and one that changed me and my business forever.
I would love to be able to find a happy balance between building my own business and spending time with my kids. It is tough when you are starting out because it is time consuming to build a good following. I hope that I can find success before I reach the age of 50, granted my body some days feels that old. 😉 Thank you for sharing.
I totally understand Christy. But, take it from me…finding the balance can happen you must make it happen. I look back at how unbalanced I was when I raised my kids…now I look at my grandkids and see all that I missed. Work is work, but give your kids the time they need and deserve after all they are who you are building your business for, right?
I feel very passionate about what i do, and feel it will be successful going past my 50’s.. Keep it going you are doing great!
Thank you Rob, appreciate the guidance and wisdom you share.